I often ask myself what kind of traveler I am. I suppose this is a common question- for there are a lot of different types. The Turn and Burn- do as much as possible in a short amount of time. The Dharma Bum- trying to discover some identity and deeper meaning. The Fratboy- party crash in every city and drink every kind of local booze. The Tour Groupie- follow a very strict schedule, where even "nothing time" has been allotted. There are a lot more, but these are the most common I see. What am I? Do I need to constantly be on the move- making friends- meeting people- conversing? Do I have to live in a ashram- speak very little- meditate? Do I need to see all the monuments- limit myself to inanimates and history?
I like to be on my own. I like to relax but keep my mind working. Is it bad that i'm not actively seeking out invitations to chai and chappati? Is it against traveler code to not meet other wanderers, drink at the bars, and establish as many international connections as possible? I'm starting to realize that the traveler changes with the traveling- and it works best for me when I adapt and bend to whichever current flows my way.
I like my isolation- it gives me space. In this space I'm allowed to expand. With so much to absorb, this space is necessary and I cherish it. Many people invariably work their ways into my path, and I can choose who to accept, who to embrace, and who to kindly turn away. But I keep to myself and enjoy the friendship of my very dynamic surroundings.
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